Resolved Question: I have a crush on my friend but he maybe getting deported :(?

7 February 2012, 3:44 pm

Him and his little brother are moving away from the US to go back and live in their hometown country of Colombia. If they don't move they risk getting deported. His parents both have green cards and legal documents to allow them to live here and have all the rights of the US but my friend and his brother only have some not all of the documents so they still risk deportation. My friend is 21 and I am 22 and I have known him since the 7th grade and he knows I am gay and I have this big crush on him. He supports me and even said the day I got married he would be at my gay wedding. It meant so much hearing that and I thought I would be with him as a friend forever. I recently told him I had something to say and when he asked what I told him I have this big crush on him and want him to be my boyfriend so we can be together but then he broke the news that he is moving back to Colombia or else his family risks being deported. He says that they move within a few months or so. He also said even though he is not gay he is flattered and that he would love to go out with me on one date before he leaves so at least I can have that. I have never felt this close or had this big of a crush on anyone before. He is the one for me and perfect in every way and I can picture myself adopting kids with him to start a family and even getting married to him. I just don't know what to do anymore because the love of my life is leaving me :(... Read More »